The Closure

Most times in our life, we are faced with issues. Some are good, some aren't. Normally, dealing with the good ones will probably results in happiness or other positive outcomes. On the other hand, dealing with the bad one will need extra effort either to solve it or leave it and move on.

On some rare occasion, there are issues which bring happiness and sadness together... for example issues regarding L-O-V-E. It could create happiness and bring someone to the 7th Heaven or Clouds#9; a funny feeling as if a butterfly spreads its wings inside your stomach.

On the other side, when the love didn't get a return, it will bring some sadness and disappointment where one should handle it carefully not to create further emotional breakdown. Facing rejection, one may grieve for a moment and move on while others may plan for another strategy to get the heart. At least, that person still hope for a chance...

The later was my experience with someone. I've been dealing with it for quite some time that I realize it's not gonna be healthy for me to hope for things I may not get. I realize I should not put my hope and expectation too high, thus I decided to get a closure.

Thank God I did that. Thank God I seek for a closure. I gain peace (after a little hurt) and am able to move on to my next chapter. I learned that closure is one important thing to seek.

"Thank you for giving me an answer. Thank you for taking care of my heart. Thank you for being you. I am glad to have you in my life. I will always care about you.... as your best friend."