I recently learned they way to love I've never experienced before. All the time that I live, I always love others through the common ways: giving & receiving, providing & taking, surrendering & believing, fighting & reconciling (while some people actually decided to stuck on fighting without any attempt to reconcile).
Now, I realize that Love also means to let go. Yes, I realize and learn that I cannot always hope that I could always be together with people that I love and care about. Sometimes there are barriers and obstacles from other human being or condition or other possible forces that do not wish the same way as I do. And yeah, for better or worse, I could only surrender to the situation and wish for the best that could ever happen and be done.
My deep condolences to the forces that do not understand the true meaning of Loving
2 comments:
If you still have objections with my thought and demands, I suggest that we have an open discussion to get over it, because we seem to have a far different perspective.
Your thought of reconciling (if it's really existed in this case) is highly appreciated.
Dude, Move on! Sometimes, when we are stucked with one situation, especially when we are being judged by people (apa lagi di judge oleh sekelompok 'gank', atas nama solidatritas teman, gereja dan Tuhan, dengan sistem keroyokan seperti yang kau hadapi), You just have to move on! LEAVE IT BEHIND! I sensed that you still expect things fixed from those who have judged and hammered you. No, don't stop walking, move on!
My Father, once pernah suatu hari menasihati one of my brother. Katanya: "kalau kau berada di situasi yang tidak dapat kau kendalikan, lari sekencang-kencangnya, selamatkan dirimu". I think, being gagah berani tidak harus selalu menghadapinya, tetapi dengan cerdas meninggalkannya. Like you said: "LET GO OF THEM!". Menghadapi orang-orang possesive hanya akan membuat kita juga menjadi possesive.
Apapun kesalahanmu in the past, jika itu membuat orang-orang yang selalu berbicara atas nama Tuhan itu mengucilkanmu, menghukummu, bergunjing tentangmu, LET IT BE!. Jangan merengek, karena hanya Tuhan yang akan memberikan pengampunan, baik padamu, maupun pada hakim-hakim dadakan yang sedang mengadili kau itu.
I have been there, Dude!
Cheers!
TS
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